Here's a fun tip I enjoy sharing with my students:
Cinnamon, peppermint and vanilla are very uplifting essential oils for men. That is uplifting in all the right places. It increases blood flow for a very uplifting experience by 40%.
Men also are very attracted to the scents of peppermint, vanilla and cinnamon. It is thought that these aromas make men feel secure and relaxed. That these essential oils will help them let their guard down. Indeed it may transfer them back to the days when they were young in their mama's kitchen. Diffuse any of these oils and see how quickly they change from thinking mama to thinking hot mama.